Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Love maybe blind but it will find you..

The now popular song goes...I don't wanna wait in vain for your love... because summer is here, I'm still waiting there...The big question is, darling...whoever told you you had to wait?The biggest mistake anyone could ever make in his or her life is to wait for a love to come running to you, come sweep you off your feet, or come whisk you away on a magic carpet ride. You shouldn't wait for love to hit you, wait for love to crawl into your skin, nor wait to fall in love.

Don't wait for love...because you don't have to. It will just happen.How many times have we waited for phone calls? How many late nights have we let ourselves dream for THE DAY...for THE ONE?

Countless? You're not alone. Because in a world of the so-called free-willed people, we all expect and grow up having these romantic notions of a lover whom we will choose, someone who will choose US over a dozen,thousand,or even millions of women out there. Who wouldn't swoon over that thought? Imagine being handpicked and told over and over again..." You are the one for me...you will always be the one in my heart..."

But it doesn't happen that way. You want love? Here's the deal-clincher: your heart never chooses who to love. At some point or another your heart will love a loser. At some point or another your heart will love someone who can never love you...someone who will make you cry...someone who will forget how important you are...someone who will never, ever even realize how important you are...someone who will not see WHO you are...someone who will never hold your hand for everyone to see...someone who loves someone else...someone who will play with your heart...someone who will never share your dreams with you...someone who will want everything but cannot give anything...someone who will never be yours...someone who will love you today but change their mind tomorrow...someone who will lie...someone who will tell you they love you, but act as if they don't...someone who will steal your heart and never give it back.

You will always come across someone who will not even realize what they're talking about. Words are important, but words can be fatal if not used carefully and not thought about.Words can hurt. Specially if they were assumed to be real but they weren't. Sweet tongues and smooth operators are countless. They were not born yesterday, no matter how old or young...they have been around and they know how to woo you out of limitations and safe boundaries. Once they have you bogged down out of your you-can't-make-me-love-you-zones, they discard you like used rags.

But that's how the heart works. It was made to love someone who SEEMS to love you. Because the heart's a little stupid. On the other hand, the good side to that innocence of the heart is that, it will not fend off affection that people with real intentions will offer. And that's your heart's go signal to love.Good for you.When that happens just don't push love away. You don't have to wait for love, dear... please don't. But when it comes, open your arms and let it in. It may not be the forever kind of love..or the one to make your heart race everytime..or the one to give the sweet, silent contentment whenever you're holding each other's hands and just sitting next to each other..but at least, it's there. It may not be love yet..just not as of yet..but knowing there's someone who's willing to be the one to care for you and share a few moments with you everyday..be the witness to your life: its bitterness, its joys, its pains, its ho-hum days..that's what really matters...

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